Cassidy here...
Jan. 7th was the last day I will ever see my grandfather... He passed away with no suffering and is now in peace with the Lord. He was an amazing man! He taught me several things in life... he taught me to always work hard and never give up, he taught me than no matter what be there for my family and do what I have to to make ends meet, and he taught me what real love really means after being married to my grandma for 68 years! So I will always remember my papa and I will miss him so much!
Here is what Jeremy wrote about my papa after knowing him for 10 months... So, I hope this touches someone to want to be like my grandfather!
I'm sitting here in Llano, Texas with my eyes opened to how much a man (or any person for that matter) can mean to so many people. Cassidy's grandpa is in the hospital, not doing well, and knowing he doesn't have much more time left on this earth. I've sat in his hospital room with Cassidy, Cindi, and "Grandma" for the last few days looking at a man who has been married to the same woman for 68 years, kept his word when he's said he would, and just affected so many people in a good way. There are people coming in and out of that room to see how he is doing and seeing if there is anything they can do to help. I wonder, how can a person in his condition, someone who obviously doesn't feel good at all, lay in that bed and still joke and put smiles on peoples' faces when he could easily just sleep or lie there and not do anything. The answer is just in who he is. I haven't known him as long as any of the people who have been there to see him, yet I still love him and he has still made an impact on my life. I'm usually not a very emotional person or at least I try not to show it, but "Papa" has made me cry several times in the last few days. He's not worried about himself, he just wants his family to be taken care of and wants the ranch to stay in his family. He gets a smile on his face when someone comes to see him and he jokes with his nurses, yet again while he obviously doesn't feel well. The thing that made me the most emotional besides seeing Cassidy crying is when he keeps including me in every discussion that involves his family, the ones that are his by blood, the ones that have known him for all these years. I just married his granddaughter, but he treats me just like i'm his grandson and have been the whole time. He makes me feel so welcome. Not once since the day I met him has he treated me like I'm not welcome in his family, not once has he made me feel left out. He's made me laugh so many times since I met him and he has had such a positive affect on me. I can't imagine what the people who have known him for so much longer, especially Grandma, Cindi, Joel, Tyson, and Cassidy are feeling during this time. I say all of this just to say that I hope that when I am married to Cassidy for 68 years or hopefully longer and lying down in his condition that people will be able to say I have made such an impact on their lives as "Papa" has on all of these peoples' lives. I hope people see me as such a honest, respectable, hard working man that they love so much, but not for my sake, not so I can say look at what I've done. I want people to feel that way about me because those are the kind of men people look up to and want their children to grow up and be like. I want to be that man that is perfectly ok with going home, going to heaven to see God. I want to be that man that can mean so much...for my wife, the kids I will have in the future, and grandkids, the rest of my family, my friends, and anyone else I come in contact with. That's all I know to say, its just what is on my mind.